How do you talk to a Capricorn? Understanding how they like to be communicated with is the first step in talking to one.
The best way to talk to a Capricorn is to speak plainly and in a straightforward manner. They dislike anything that is vague or overly complicated, so they appreciate when you say what you mean and get to the point.
That’s the simple and superficial answer. Below I’ll dive much deeper into the best approaches when communicating with a Capricorn in your life.
How Capricorns Prefer to Communicate
Capricorns prefer to communicate verbally in a straightforward manner. They will appreciate it when you speak plainly and tell them what is on your mind, rather than beat around the bush or hint at things that leave room for interpretation.
That doesn’t mean they don’t have a sense of humor – Capricorns are known for their dry, witty sense of humor – but what they enjoy most about a conversation is when it’s had in a straightforward manner.
What You Should Say to Get Through to Them
When you’re trying to get your point through and convince them, Capricorns are known for being stubborn which can be difficult if you don’t know their strengths and weaknesses.
You’ll need to appeal to their logic and goal-oriented nature by telling them what the end result will be if they go through with your plan. This is a good way of getting closer to convincing them, because it’s all about results for Capricorns: not just what you’re saying, but how it will affect them in the long run.
How to Get a Capricorn on Your Side
Negotiation is one of the strongest skills for any Capricorns out there.
If you want them to go along with your side and agree to your point-of-view, then negotiate! Offer up something in return that they want and need.
For example, if you’re trying to convince them not to be stubborn and let you have your way in a situation or event, then offer up something from your side in return. This could be as simple as listening to their opinion on the matter with respect (something Capricorns are known for) or as complex as giving them more time to think or be given the final word in a situation (something that they also enjoy).
Some tips for negotiating with a Capricorn:
- Realize that it’s not about arguing, but negotiating. That means they’re more likely to listen if you offer them something in return for their compliance and agreement with your request.
- Be open minded and willing to compromise – this way, both of you will feel like the solution is fair. A Capricorn also won’t feel as if they’re being forced.
- Be confident in your request and try to show that you know what you want by offering up a solution or something in return.
- If all else fails, then don’t hesitate to ask them for advice on the matter because Capricorns are known for their wise counsel! They see things from every angle and will likely have a great solution in store for both of you.
Capricorns are Stubborn
Dealing with Capricorn’s stubbornness is a very common problem, so when talking to them it’s best not to force anything on them and instead give them the chance to make up their own mind.
It’s not uncommon for them to say no, even if they actually want what you’re offering – just because it sounds like you’re being too pushy and demanding.
And while this may seem unfair, remember that this isn’t about arguing – it’s about negotiating! That means they won’t be as likely to listen if you don’t offer them something in return for their compliance and agreement with your request.
So how do you deal with a Capricorn who refuses to budge? Try these tips:
- Don’t make any threats.
- Don’t make any promises that you can’t keep.
- Instead try to come up with an agreement that will work for both parties.
- Try to establish long-term plans that will work for both parties.
- Remember that Capricorns are stubborn, but also smart. They’re more likely to listen if you offer them something in return for their compliance and agreement with your request.
- It’s important for a Capricorn that they feel as if their opinion has been heard and respected – even when things don’t go their way.
What Are Some Capricorn Traits I Should Be Aware Of?
Capricorn is ambitious and hard-working. At times, they may struggle with feeling lonely even if they are surrounded by friends or loved ones.
Capricorns are often misunderstood because they feel deeply and talk about things rationally. They’re introverted, so sometimes people may misinterpret their silence for being cold or rude which can make them feel lonely.
A Capricorn is a good listener and often listens to the needs of others before their own. They are empathetic, understanding, and patient with those who may be struggling more than they are.
A Capricorn likes to hear that they are valued and appreciated. They strive for success, but they want to know it isn’t at the cost of others’ happiness. This is why giving a compliment can go a long way in their communication with you!
Capricorns are excellent negotiators and love to make deals with others. They’re also good at sticking to the rules when it comes time for a decision and will always want closure, no matter what circumstances arise.
A Capricorn’s main goal in life is success – which means that they set their mind on one thing and refuse any other ideas.
Capricorns like to hear about the long-term benefits of a situation, not just what they will gain right now. They want details and numbers in order to visualize things clearly. When talking with them, focus on specific goals and ways that those goals can be accomplished. You should explain how things are achievable once you have their attention for a few minutes.
What Capricorns Like to Hear
Here are some phrases to say that will really appeal to a Capricorn:
- “How can I help?”
- “I want to work with you on this.”
- “I want to work with you.”
- “We can do this. What would be the best way for us?”
- “What are your thoughts on this? I’d like to know what you think.”
- “What would make this easier for you right now?”
- “Can I provide any assistance in helping with this situation?”
Get a Capricorn’s attention by talking about the benefits and details of something. They love numbers and facts, so if they’re not listening at first, try giving them some statistics that show how it will benefit them in the long-term.
What Capricorns Don’t Like to Hear
Capricorns do not like to hear words such as “can’t,” “won’t” and “impossible.” These words bring up negative connotations. It is best to use positive, forward-thinking language when talking with a Capricorn. They also don’t like being the centre of attention or feeling pressured by someone. It is best to speak with a Capricorn in private, as they don’t like people who are loud or pushy.
They also prefer when people ask them how things are going rather than telling them what they should do. Telling someone what they should do may feel like an attack to a Capricorn.
Here are some things to avoid saying to a Capricorn:
- “Just accept it.”
- “That’s just how it is.”
- “It’s not worth it.”
- “You can’t do anything about it.”
- “It’s impossible to change things now.”
- “You’ll never get it done.”
They Need Time
You should know that while this sign likes honesty, they also need time for self-reflection. It’s best not to rush them and try too hard to get them on board if it’s something they don’t want at the moment. Once they’re ready, they’ll be more willing to talk about it.
Capricorns are introverted and enjoy their time alone or with family and friends. They may not always show this emotion on the outside; however, if you get them talking in private that is when your true feelings can come out – so don’t give up!
Capricorns often need time and space to contemplate things before they’ll respond, so it’s important not to take their silence personally. At times when asked what’s wrong or if anything is bothering them, the answer might be “no.” This doesn’t mean that nothing is wrong or bothering them, just that they need time to figure out how to tell you and what words to use.
Don’t try and force a Capricorn to talk about something they don’t want to discuss, even if the thing is important. Give them time and space before revisiting what happened again later on down the road because it may feel like being attacked to them at that moment in time. It’s often best not to tell a Capricorn what they should do but rather ask them how things are going and listen to their thoughts, feelings, and needs.
The best way for a Capricorn to feel heard is by asking questions about their thoughts and feelings rather than telling them what you think about the situation. This will give an opportunity for dialogue without feeling like it’s being forced.
Small Talk
Capricorns are not big on small talk, but they do appreciate when conversations are focused around a subject that is meaningful or helpful to them.. People who are interested in talking about a subject that is meaningful to the Capricorn will be most likely to get their attention.
Here are some examples of good topics for small talk:
- What they do at work, what kind of projects they’re working on and how it’s going *(makes them feel important)
- What they’re reading or watching (shows interest in their interests)
- Their family (make them feel wanted and loved)
The key to keeping a Capricorn interested is not to be afraid. Try your best to stay focused on the conversation, don’t get distracted by something else, and don’t give up.
Humor
Be prepared for some dry humor, teasing and jokes. Jokes are a way for Capricorns to let out stress, so don’t take it too personally if they joke about you or themselves! They might not tell the punchline of the joke ahead of time as that would spoil it but instead will wait until the end to see your reaction.
This sign is very analytical when it comes to jokes, so they’re not likely to just tell a joke and laugh at it right away. They’ll probably wait until the end to see your reaction before deciding if you found them funny or not.